Had a wonderful day getting dresses up and going into work
Was subbing for Sharon who is also going thru a rough time with her period . I felt like a real human being instead of a blob of flesh laying around the house
More things that happened to me during the horrible l year that I can laff about now part two ...........
My sexuality was keeping up with a major change in US law & culture.I have been with men married to women , women married to men but never a woman married to another woman Since it was illegal .That all suddenly & happily changed in June 2015 when the US Supreme Court basically legalized same
marriage
While not getting married myself still affected in a good way sleeping with my very first woman married to another woman about 6 weeks later in July .She was a short stocky woman staying at the hotel who I hit it off with instantly when checking up on a reception she was attending . Ana was also the first guest /customer I had slept with at the Louisville Hotel since 2004!
Got a comp room right across from hers telling the front desk crew I was too tired to drive home after a rough nite then once up there she came to my room .Lots & lots of fun
.Ana was also a sign of my soon to break out attraction to butches.While very femme in a skirt suit , make up she had a masculine side in the room . Good
and she was a very smart woman . Will say now that anyone who just got married who is cheating only 4 weeks after the wedding may not have the healthiest relationship but who cares because I had fun
Not so much humor as self revelation that has made me very happy
Up to then with one exception I had always been with femmes, soft butches or bi-curios ( often
) straight woman . Bull dykes were not my thing since they all seemed to be so angry and were often plus sized .My one single sexual experience years before when I was very
and wanting to get back at someone who'd hurt me with a butch had been a disaster . But that changed when I ran into my old friend/sometimes mentor Wendy Kay ( we'd known each other for almost 15 years and she was about 10 years older then me ) and her new very butch gf Barb at PURRS the only girl bar in town .It was a Friday nite with a big lively crow celebrating the end of the work week . Good to see Wendy and while despite my doubts about butches enjoyed talking to Barb who was an army recruiter and drinking/dancing .
Suddenly we were back at Wendy's house ( a log cabin type she got in her divorce from Mr Rich Guy ) drinking & talking with Wendy raising the idea of fun . I hadn't thought about that seeing my reservations about butches however after a few moments and another 2 fingers of SEAGRAMS of I decided to go along but still nervous , t about doing a bull .Tok several more moire gulps of whisky to work up the nerve as I undressed . Was smiling when I walked buck nekkid into Wendy's bedroom saying to myself " Here goes nothing " when I crawled into the bed .
Surprise surprise it was fantastic
I enjoyed being with Barb more then I did Wendy . Thought to myself " You fool look what you have been missing all these years ignoring flannel shirts ! " and intended to add bull dykes to my dating list .Didn't leave till noon the next day ,having only enough time to do a few errands, go home to change then into work .There was till more to the week-end .I went back to Wendys' on Sunday afternoon and we all got wild again
Several more threesmes followed until they broke up . Had the chance to date Barb but even though I found her to be amazing didn't , that wud have hurt Wendy .
Thrown out like the garbage , bad ! Over Labor Day week-end met a guy at a beer garden , his name was Harry and he was a high school football coach . WEe went back to his place that was an apartment on the second floor of an old house. Harry said he was single but I knew right away that wasn't true .There were pictures of him and a woman all over the place, women's clothes in the closet , meds with a woman's name on the bottles in the bathroom medicine cabinet , a magazine addressed to a woman at that address etc .But it was OK , I wanted dick so decided to overlook the fact he had a gf or wife living there.Harry volunteered it was a siter who sometimes stayed at his place .......
Morning came and I was still in bed when the phone rang with Harry suddenly panicing . After hanging up now more & more hyper by the second he told his gf had driven home early from visiting her mom in Elizabethtown and and had stopped at STARBUCKS and wud be home in minutes and I had to get out quick!!!!!!!s practically exploding even grabbing my arm to pull me out of bed .In seconds I had my dress back on but nothing else including undies ,shoos .The house could have been on fire and he couldn't have rushed me out faster to get to the door , even slightly pushing me .Once out the door he still kept telling to run to my
faster ! I did and left .Going up around the bend saw what I thought was his gf all smiels glad to be back to her man .I stopped at the same STARBUCKS she had been at , if the barristas only knew what had happened
Coach Harry called me up 2 weeks later wanting to go out , all I could do was ask him if he was serious and hang up .
Thrown out like garbage again but this time ironically that was good .After a hard nite at work some much needed pleasure for both of us with sales director Daniela
She was in her early 5's and still had her looks as well as a sense of of grace that you can't buy .It was a cold march morning with temps in the 3's and frost on the ground . No reason to go out and I looked forward to spending the rest of the morning with D .Thought we were safe since the ex had the 2 teen age daughters for the week-end .
Not to be . Around 10:30Am she got a call from the ex and from her response knew something was wrong . D said she had to do something but wud call him right back . I asked her waht was was going on then in an excited way how her ex had an
with her 17 year old daughter and she had stormed out with her 15 year old sister in tow shouting out how they were going back to mom's .Eeeck , Daniela was now terrified they'd come across mother secret that she was bisexual .
So knowing the drill from that asshole Coach Harry without being asked like a machine jumped out of bed quickly putting my blouse & skirt on , carrying my jacket , cramming my pantyhose into my purse , picking up my shoes and headed to the back door . Daniela was surprised by how I knew without being asked and thanked me .Told her there was nmo time for that , I had to scoot before the kids got home . In this case I didn't mind since as a kid I hated the way my mother wud be bringing home men all the time and didn't want to see D's girls hurt that way .
Went out the back door onto the commons area .I saw an older man in a walking
like the kind you see in British movies & down vert with his dog looking at me smiling , not a smile to be friendly but amusement since he knew something crazy was going on. That had me suddenly laffing
I could have gone to the right having to go by just 2 row houses to get to my
but to be safe went to the left taking me around about 9 other units .BTW walking barefoot on cold grass & concrete can be painful.
Daniela was real nice at the manager's meeting Monday and thanked me for rushing out , took me out to dinner that nite
More to come ........................
Today was a white blouse/shorter gray pencil skirt, suntan thi tops, black heels and at the present moment what else but a white Tee & jean cut offs .